How to make my drums sound better?

I've had my drum kit for awhile and I 've been tweaking them occasionally. After listening to Papa Roach's drums in ".....To Be Loved" in the Paramour Sessions album and I decided I want my drums to sound like that. I have a few problems though. My snare sounds decent but I want it to sound like the snare in ...To Be loved. Also my toms have major overtones and they can get quite annoying. Is there anyway I can dull out these overtones to make them sound like the toms from the song? I own a Pearl Forum 5 piece set and I'm using the original toms and b drum (Switched out the snare for a better one). I have put 2 ply Remos on the toms but I still can't get rid of that ringing afterwards. Also, I added on a DW Steel Piccolo Tom, but it is a tough transition in tones from that tom to my next tom from the Forum set. I believe the piccolo tom is either 8 or 10". Please help me!